Did you suffer a nasty breakup and wish that your ex still thought about you? Believe it or not, there are numerous instances where relationships didn’t work out the first time around, but the second try was the charm. How can you tell if your ex still harbors feelings for you? As it turns out, the way someone reacts and behaves towards you is a surefire way to gauge their intentions– especially after the breakup!
Sign #1: Talking About The Relationship
More often than not, exes will confront each other about what went wrong in the relationship, but mostly to assign blame where it’s due. However, if your ex ever wants to consider rebuilding what you had together, he or she may talk about the relationship to actually figure out where it all went downhill. Notice that there is a world of difference between placing blame, and showing genuine interest in why things didn’t work out.
Sign #2: Talking About The Future
If you still have regular conversations with your ex, and you’ve talked about the future where you make a gradual appearance on more than one occasion, it could be a good sign. This generally means that your ex really can’t imagine a future without you, so there is a chance for reconciliation in the near future.
Sign #3: Keeping Dating Secrets
There are generally two types of exes: ones that start dating other people right away to keep their mind off of the nasty breakup, or those that are still waiting around for the right person. If your ex hasn’t started dating again, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he or she is waiting for you. However, when you talk to your ex and he or she is actively keeping their dating life a secret, there is a very likely chance that they will want to get back together.
Sign #4: Reminiscing About Good Memories – Magic Of Making Up Data
Your ex talking about past good times and fun memories you’ve shared together is always a good sign in any relationship. It means that the breakup didn’t overshadow the personal connection that you’ve shared, and even if not right now, you still have a chance to get back together. After all, if they remember having a good time with you, then it means they’re missing you in their life.
Sign #5: Personal Improvement
Is your ex trying to amend his or her personality? If you see that your ex is actively looking to improve the areas of their personality responsible for the breakup, it could be a sign of future interest in you. However, this doesn’t necessarily mean you will get back together as it could also be a way for your ex to work on themselves for a future with someone else.
It can be exciting when you think your ex wants to get back together with you, but you should always put yourself first. The signs discussed above are a good way to gauge intentions, but at the end of the day, it’s up to you whether or not you really want to read between the lines!